Sex & the Single Woman: 2011 is the Year For . . .


I know I have been talking about new year’s resolutions since, well, January 1, but I can’t help but be inspired by the clean slate. One thing I am doing to embrace this chance to start over is focusing on myself a little more. Well, at least when it comes to dating.

That sounds kind of weird, but there is a method behind the madness. I want to reassure myself that when I am out or when I am throwing together an outfit, I am doing it for myself, not for some guy. The way I act, the plans I make? I want them to be for me.

I don’t run around trying to please men, but at the same time I want to remind myself of my priorities. And that means putting myself  first.

What about you — is there anything you want to change in the new year?