Sex & the Single Woman: Balancing Act

Last week my roommate and I were having lunch and we reflected on the relationships of our friends. One thing that we kept coming back to is talking about what makes a balanced relationship.

We acknowledged that a certain amount of arguing is necessary — a relationship that is too peaceful won’t be able to deal with larger conflicts. At the same time, we worry about people who fight too much.

It’s hard to achieve a perfect balance when it comes to relationships. I haven’t met any couple who has it just right. But at the same time, isn’t that the point? To always be working at it?