Sex & the Single Woman: Ball and Chain

Pigs are officially flying.

I have mentioned that there is a new guy on the scene and that things may or may not be going places. He is sending mixed signals, but the most beguiling of all is his apparent desire for commitment.

Now I’m not talking just relationship here. When I saw him last week, he made a comment about us staying in touch for the years to come and he mentioned how he wants to keep seeing me.

Whoa. WHOA.

I have a hard enough time trying to get a guy to commit to dinner and a movie, let alone keeping in contact down the road. We are definitely not in a relationship, so I am shocked by his initiative.

I am definitely a commitment kinda girl, so I don’t hate this, but it does make me suspicious. I have never met a guy with this kind of perspective and I don’t know how I feel about it.

What do you think? Is there a point where you can have too much commitment too soon?

–Maggie