Sex & the Single Woman: Ch-ch-changes

Although it has been almost 40 years since David Bowie sang about changes, they are still a-happening. Case in point is a friend of mine who I have known almost my entire life. She recently started seriously dating a guy and I’m unsure of how I feel about it.

The problem lies in the fact that he lives near me and whenever she comes into town, she hides. She doesn’t ever want to meet up, and as it is I only see her a few times a year. The other day she finally extended an invitation to meet up, but ended up cancelling as I was en route to see her. Lame.

What I am questioning now is if this guy changed her or if she has always been this way.

–Maggie