Sex & the Single Woman: Chalk One Up for the Good Guy
A while ago I mentioned that I was interested in a guy, but that dating him would prove to harm the relationship between me and a good friend. I was torn as how to approach the situation, but ultimately I realized that no guy is worth hurting someone I care about so much.
I, without a doubt, made the absolutely right choice. The guy I was interested in turned out to be a jerk (thank you, good friend, for the head’s up) and thankfully I didn’t risk losing someone who matters so much to me for a guy who sees me as a conquest and nothing else.
So what have I learned from this? Trust my instincts, friends before guys, and if he has a reputation for being not such a good guy, proceed with caution.