Sex & the Single Woman: Change of Plans

I decided a long time ago that I wasn’t going to dwell on being single. I don’t think that my relationship status should define my life at all. And because of this, I decided to focus on living my life and bringing about my own happiness. And so far it’s worked.

…so far.

I am coming to realize, however, that being busy to avoid feeling lonely is no solution to the problem. At the end of the day, the fact of the matter is that I am become tired and stressed to forget about something, and that’s not going away anytime soon.

So what’s a girl to do? You can’t escape from your problems by adding more. At the same time, it’s not going to help if I sit around dwelling on things.

What do you think? Can you proactively avoid being single?