Sex & the Single Woman: Dateable?

After spending so much time observing the behavior of young singles in the dating scene, I am beginning to wonder if perhaps some people are just not dateable.

I see people make the same mistakes over and over. While I am certainly have not perfected the art of dating, I do try to learn from my mistakes. I think this is one of the most important things in preparing oneself for a solid relationship.

I also see people who fall into the same patterns — they always seem to be flirting but rarely seem to actually be investing in something worthwhile. I am all for the flirt, but if you’re looking for something serious, being just a flirt may not be the way to go.

So if you are truly “undateable,” how do you get out of your rut?