Sex & the Single Woman: Dating Karma

I’m not sure I can explain why, but I am a firm believer in karma. Yes, bad things happen to good people, but in general I have found that giving out good vibes tends to send them back my way. In my opinion, this also applies to love.

I try to be a happy person, and most of the time I think I’m fairly successful. I also have found that while a part of me is attracted to the angst in troubled guys, I ultimately want to be around the ones who are happy. And this encourages me to be happy as well.

This past weekend I hung out with a friend who I’ve known for quite some time. While I have always enjoyed being around him, it wasn’t until we went our separate ways for the week that I realized why this is. He’s so happy all the time. Things roll off of him and he’s always laughing. Who wouldn’t want to be around that?

This brings me back to karma because I’ve realized the happier I am, the more people will want to be around me. (Elementary, dear Watson.) A simple concept, but one that took a little long to set it.

So here’s to being happy and making the most out of every situation. Cheers!