Sex & the Single Woman: I’m Not Over You Just Yet

Old-LettersIs it so bad to never get over a guy?

Now I am a firm believer in taking guys who are honestly no good and kicking them to the curb, but what about those guys who are honestly good people? I have met my fair share of dudes who are decent human beings, just not destined to be with me forever.

I think there are some people who make such a profound impact in our lives that we never truly get over them. I am also a firm believer that I would not be who I am today with all of the people who have come in and out of my life. I can’t accept the fact that I would be the same person without some of the moments brought to me by men of my past.

I don’t think we should hold on to something that is never going to happen, but I do think we should treasure the moments the shaped us and continue to influence us in the present. Because of that, I know there are some guys I will never get over.