Sex & the Single Woman: It’s A Slippery Slope

I mentioned that I just started reconnecting with a guy who I have on-and-off dated for quite some time. I’m finding that our problem is not chemistry-based, but rather the speed at which things happen. For us, there sometimes is no middle “just friends” ground. Much like the Lamborghini that I will never own, we tend to go from zero to 60 in about no time flat.

As much as I like being friends with this guy, I am worried about the snowball effect. If we start to talk more, will we all of the sudden be accelerating toward the point of no return? How do you walk that fine line?

I have decided to give it one more go. To carefully tread those waters and see what happens. I don’t want either of us to get hurt, but I think we have it in us to be simply good friends.

–Maggie