Sex & the Single Woman: It’s Her Party and I’ll Cry If I Want To

Last Friday I ran into a group of my guy friends, who ended up inviting me to their house for a party later that night. When I got there, however, I saw that the party ended awkwardly early. And then I found out who the party was honoring.

Quick sidenote: the group of guy friends happen to be roommates with a guy I used to date this past fall.

The party was in honor of the ex’s new girlfriend.

And, yes, his roommates found it okay to invite me to it. I know that guys operate differently than girls do, but I feel like it is common sense to be a little courteous of  a recent breakup. I put on a good face in front of his roommates, but I definitely didn’t take the breakup well. Although I am over it now, I still don’t like being put in that uncomfortable place.

Is it legitimate to wonder what they were thinking?