Sex & the Single Woman: It’s Not You, It’s Him

One of my greatest fears about relationships comes not from my own experiences, but in those of my friends. My friends mean the world to me and I sometimes I worry about the guys they date.

That being said, I am the first person to be welcoming of my of my friends’ boyfriends. They generally have solid taste in guys, which is a huge relief. However, every once in a while there is a guy who comes along who just needs to go away.

For all of you ladies who follow MTV’s The Hills, you have seen firsthand that telling a friend something she doesn’t want to hear does not always go well. Heidi ignored Lauren’s advice and ran off with Spencer, who is loathed by the majority of the reality TV audience of America.

What do you do when you friend dates a guy you absolutely despise? Worse, what if he is a guy who isn’t good for her and she can’t see it?