Sex & the Single Woman: Just Won’t Give It Up

Almost a year and a half ago, my roommate hooked up with a guy we all want her to marry. We claim it was fated–I even remember blogging about it.

Maybe then that is why, 18 months later, we are still obsessed with talking about it. And him. And the two of them together.

What I’m wondering now is why this guy? Why won’t we let it go? She’s clearly moved on, yet we cannot. Is it possible for us to be more invested in their relationship than they are?

I’ve been quasi-interested in guys before and had my friends be more excited than me. Is it the thought that maybe our friends have chosen who we want them to be with? Or maybe we are just really hoping for a happy ending?