Sex & the Single Woman: Keep Me Hanging On

Recently, two friends of mine started dating. Well, sort of. You see, he was very into her from the start. She didn’t want a relationship, but seemed interested in just “hanging out” with him.

The thing that mystifies me is that after being told this, he continued to pursue her. From an outsider’s perspective, it hurt to watch because he is a genuinely great guy and definitely a catch, yet her friends declared him beneath her.

I realized that this situation isn’t that uncommon…. when reversed. I see so many women hanging on to a guy who doesn’t want a relationship because they think they can change him. But can we we be changed?

Is one person enough to turn a person to commitment?