Sex & the Single Woman: Mixed Signals

I know I have mentioned that there is a new guy on the horizon, but at this point it’s hard to tell if he is a promising prospect or just a distant possibility.

We have hung out a lot lately, which is always a plus, and when we hang out things are awesome. So what’s the problem, right?

The issue I have is that the boy has no follow through. In person, he is stunning–sweet, funny and seemingly very interested. But he’ll promise to call me, to see me, to stop by my house… and he never does.

I want to trust him. On paper, he is a pretty good catch. I don’t think he is playing me, but at the same time it makes me wonder how serious he really is.

When guys send mixed signals like this, how long are we supposed to wait around? Should I ask him upfront what he wants or forever hold my peace?