Sex & the Single Woman: Out on a Limb

As much as a feminist as I like to think I am, I do appreciate an assertive guy. I won’t say no to asking a guy out, but it’s so much easier when he just takes the initiative to do it for me.

Evey once in a while, however, there is that guy who just isn’t willing to make the first move. For most guys, this is a big strike. Yet for others, I’ll overlook it.

I have found that when I do put myself out there, it usually has good results. When I have made these moves, guys respond well.

But what defines the difference between these two categories of guys? Why is it worth it to put forth the extra effort for one guy, but write another person off for the same problem?