Sex & the Single Woman: So Aloof

Thankfully I have finally started to move on from the younger guy who once had my eye. Yes, there is someone new on the horizon, but I am not sure if it is going anywhere. I admit that I fail–I already somewhat know him, which defeats my goal of dating someone NOT my friend.

Anyway, he is definitely on the radar and he is definitely being a tease without realizing it. I, however, am just starting to notice this. He is so darn aloof and it’s frustrating.

I honestly believe that part of his charm is that he will be completely open with you once you earn the right to have a serious conversation with him.

So what is it about aloof guys that make them so alluring? Is it the fact that as women we want to know everything and they refuse to let us in?