Sex & the Single Woman: Testing

No matter how much I trust a guy, I always find myself testing him. I know why I do this; I want to find a flaw in the guys so I can prove to myself that they aren’t perfect. I guess it all comes down to me wanting to protect myself from getting hurt.

Testing people is something I really wish I didn’t do. I don’t like being someone who can’t trust others, yet at the same time I know I would do almost anything to prevent myself from getting hurt.

So how do I stop this trend? How do I stop myself from testing people? There is the simple solution of quitting cold turkey, but I think it will take more than that.

What about you– do you test the ones you love? How do you stop yourself?

–Maggie