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Sex & the Single Woman: Timing is Everything
Can a guy be right for you, but the timing is wrong?
What happens when you do meet someone, but he has a girlfriend, or you have a boyfriend? Or for whatever reason it just isn’t the right time for you two to be together?
I am a big believer in fate. I trust that no matter what happens in my life, things will work out. There have been guys who I knew for awhile but never expected to date, and then did.
But what happens if you meet a guy and you know that it should work out between the two of you? I don’t believe in waiting around for something that may very well never happen. I was in this position recently; we were finally both single at the same time, leaving room for something to happen. But when the window did eventually open up, I realized that it wasn’t meant to be at all.
All I can figure is that I shouldn’t waste time waiting for anyone. If I am single, there is no reason to tie myself down to something that isn’t there.
–Maggie
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This is such a great truth Maggie! I too am a big believer in fate, or at least timing!! My mom once told me when I was about 19 years old, “90% of compatibility in a relationship is timing.” If only I would’ve taken her word for that sooner.
It’s so hard when you are in love with a great man who just isn’t ready or vice versa. But you have to trust and take the other persons “word for it” if they say the timing isn’t right! Or they aren’t ready, etc.
I could’ve saved myself years of heartache had I listened up the first time as you suggest and moved on! Better to be single and fabulous then trying to work out what isn’t compatible!
Timing is everything ;)
–Jill the Duchess
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