Sex & the Single Woman: Wreckage of a Friendship

One problem that I have noticed in my girlfriends is that when they start dating someone, they never fail to change. This isn’t always a bad thing; in fact, most of the time the guys they date bring out the best in them. However, I do know some girls who take a turn for the worse.

In the case of one of my friends, she has become THAT girl. The one who forsakes her friends for her boyfriend. I have known her for years but now she lives out of town. She met her lover boy while visiting me one time, yet she never feels the need to see me when she is in town to visit him.

The way the situation has played out I have found myself more fond of him than her. As much as I dislike his influence on her, I have decided that he is not dictating the way she acts. She acts that way out of her own accord. In fact, he is the one who is aware that our friendship is quickly deteriorating and he is trying to salvage it.

So what happens when you start liking your friend’s boyfriend better than you like her?