Is Your Boyfriend a Turkey? Six Sure-Fire Signs

You’ve been dating him now for a while — so why don’t you bite the bullet and let him meet the parents? If you can’t stand the thought of sitting through one more Thanksgiving in which your family still teases you about your “Invisible Man,” maybe your turkey isn’t on you plate, but in your [...]

10 First Date Fashion Mistakes

10 trends to steer clear of on your next big date – as chosen by men!

Sex & the Single Woman: Tales from the eHarmony Diaries

Dear Diary,
Last night I received a phone call from “Marc, Salem.”  Stat: 38, Teacher
We spoke awkwardly for about 5 minutes; me telling him about my job, he sounding like he just smoked a bowl of Kentucky bluegrass. Finally, he says, “well, I have a question…”
I think this might be the point in the conversation when [...]

What to Do When a Relationship Suddenly Ends

Charles left Miranda one day after a six-month love affair, with no satisfactory explanation. He just announced, during a good solid start at long-term love, “Sorry, Miranda, I guess this isn’t working” — said it not even kindly, at that. He wasn’t interested in hearing why Miranda thought that in fact it was working, quite [...]

John Gray Q&A: “What’s the Right Way to Fight?”

Dear John, At least once a month my boyfriend “Mac” and I get  into nasty fights that threaten our relationship. His way of solving these fights is to ignore me for days while he gets over the problem. Tim thinks that it helps him avoid saying mean things to me. Meanwhile I’m at home wondering [...]

Finding Mr. Right: Defining What You Really Need for a Relationship to Work

Wishing for a great relationship is one thing, but recognizing it is something totally different. To find the right man, you first need to have a defined idea of what you’re looking for.
In other words, a criteria list or “what I need in a man.”
If you allow your emotions to choose the criteria for your mate, [...]

Duchess Digest: Look! It’s a Sign!

Several months ago I came across a Kabbalah Center with a large banner hung over the front entrance which read, “Look – It’s a Sign!”
After chuckling for several minutes about their clever marketing campaign I started thinking, “If only it were that obvious in real life!” And so while humming the “Signs, signs everywhere is [...]

Sex & the Single Woman: The Allure of the Unattainable

At last month’s Dating Boot Camp event, NYC-based matchmaker Matt Titus talked about the rules of attraction. When a woman makes herself too available to a guy, he warned, it’s “game over.” I couldn’t help thinking of my own experience with that age-old rule of playing hard to get – and wondering if it still applies today.

Sex & the Single Woman: The Law of Scarcity

As I’ve mentioned before, I’ve recently launched a series of dating and relationship audiobooks on iTunes called “Dating Dossier.”

Sex & the Single Woman: Dating Dossier

From flirting over Twitter to picking up his body language signals, the Dating Dossier series is packed with tips aimed at modern-day single women.

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